There is nothing to report on my side. Apparently my STBXW is hiring a L, but I really do not know since I never hear from her. I am still GALing and detaching. I am thinking about putting a my profile out on one of those dating sites. Right now I'm debating if that is what I should do or not. It appears that my M is over and I am okay with that.
Dating site--hm... only you can decide that but it does seem a little premature. I know it's a personal preference but those things have always scared me. LOL.
Good to hear from you! You are probably right about the dating site and should wait until the D is final. I have not been on the site as much I found that I was lurking way too much on everyone's sitch and not focusing enough on GAL. The four day outage helped me detach from the site some.
Pin sorry about that! I wanted to add some color to the dialogue. I didn't realize that the colors I chose were so difficult to read. Anyway, I am waiting for my STBXW to file. It appears that she wants me to hold her hand or pay for the L. Either way it is time she put on her BGP
It has been a week since I last received an email from my W stating, " H, Thanks for email. What do you want me to do about the L? I guess I just get my own L and start the D process. I assume you want the divorce process moving fast. Please let me know otherwise I guess I just contact a L.
I am sorry about the mail. It is really nothing I can do to stop the junk mail. Please leave my mail downstairs tonight if you can so I can pick it up. I would really appreciate that.
Thank you,
W"
Verbatim. I am GALing and spending time with my boys from my 1st marriage...I even took my boys and ex out to dinner Sunday night. My ex and I are friendly because of our boys and that was another issue my STBXW had with me. She wanted 100% of my attention and didn't like competing with my boys and the time I had to spend with my boys and my ex with parental discussions.
No communication from STBXW since Tuesday of last week. I am assuming that she is looking/working with a L and filing...who knows. My gut is telling me that because she is so tight financially that she is waiting for me to throw in the towel and file. I know mind reading. Anyway, I continue to GAL by working out and having fun with my boys. I have my youngest son's birthday to celebrate this weekend as well as sporting events that both of my son's are competing in.
No communication from STBXW since Tuesday of last week. I am assuming that she is looking/working with a L and filing...who knows. My gut is telling me that because she is so tight financially that she is waiting for me to throw in the towel and file. I know mind reading. Anyway, I continue to GAL by working out and having fun with my boys. I have my youngest son's birthday to celebrate this weekend as well as sporting events that both of my son's are competing in.
Just curious, do you have more time for your sons now than before whe W was around?
