Not sure where to start or end, WAW? - #3

[john28]

I only answer the phone when it is bedtime for our kid and he calls. After he gets off the phone we've always chatted in the past. If I didn't chat and just hung up on her it wouldn't be good - she'd see that as "more of the same". I don't really talk much. Just chit chat, but in the past I've always tried to draw out that conversation. I haven't done that.

I think in 4 days I've spoken to her only 4 times, then for only 5 minutes each. This is a far cry from what used to happen - probably 2-3 times a day for 15-30 minutes each time.

I can just feel the sadness on the phone from her when I don't talk much. I'm not sure what to do.