First you need to calm down. It this panic fearful state you will be more incline to react in fear, which will do you no good.
1) You will be fine no matter what. YOU need to believe this. I can't believe it for you.
2) You will live. This will not kill you nor will it kill your son. Will is suck? Yes BUT only if you allow it to.
3) Now is the time for you to think about YOU. That is not selfish - it is reality.
4) If you are concerned that you may loose your house then file for the D.
As Punkin said a divorce usually takes some time. It is not like you will walk into court and get a quickie divorce. So time is on your side.
Look rysmom - you are scared and that is understandable. In order for you to make it through this you will need to face YOUR fears. Look those fu*kers right in the eye and face them.
A divorce, if it comes to that is NOT the end. It can be the begining BUT only if you allow it to.
Stay strong and do what you must to protect yourself.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
