Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Thanks GW,

She knows I am completely detached and looking to move on with my life. I know am the best option and I think what's holding her backsince she siad it to our friend is the trust factor.
To go back to one of my early posts, I said I hade anxiety and sleep issues. This truely effected our M.

She told me in the past about the issues but I didn't act on her suggestions to get them checked out. I didn't validate her opinion.

Well all that changed once the bomb hit me. I made the necessary changes for me.
In our convo when she called to want to "try" she mentioned the above and even added "If I didn't leave you then you wouldn't be who you are today". Maybe/maybe not. But taking credit for my changes is not her doing, it came from inside me. I needed to change for me. Like we all say around here.

I will let her chase me.