There is nothing formal in place, I saw it coming but still hits hard when it acctually happens.
She said we need to discuss when we have the kids so there is a structure in place for them.
She has not mention divorce yet but I expect thats coming soon also.
I have not been in contact since she called last night to tell me what she had done, and I won't be calling her first, if she wants to speak to me aboutthe kids she can call me.
My kids will be devastated by this, we were really close and I put them to bed most nights and helped with homework, this really hurts.
I have let her go, I would like to make it work, but after this I cannot see any future, I agree with other posts that her leaving is best for everyone in the future but I hate not being with my kids.
When we broke up years ago, but she never moved out, she went on holiday for a week with the kids, and came back wanting to make a go of it, so maybe this break will bring her back??
That is not my decision though, I have to think about me and make the best of the time when I see the kids.
God this hurts so much!!!!, but I have to be strong, I was nearly sick this morning getting ready for work, just knowing they were not in the house, hope I can get through this in one piece!!!!
