Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gutwrenching]

To answer your question.
First time W said she wanted to "try" working on M...never did talk R, it lasted a week and then she stopped wanting to work on it.
Second time she wanted to "try"...same as first.
Third time (after I let go), it was almost immediately and it wasn't trying it was using words like saving/rebuilding/fixing. She truly had made up her mind and had let go of OM and wanted the M/R back. And we continue to talk about it every week. I won't say every day, but multiple times a week...

How does that apply to you...listen to Coach. She has to really want this, and as MWD would say, you need to be the best option.