I hope when and if the time comes, I can stand with half the dignity you did meeting the OW. But don't let it get you down. You know the best of your H, which you miss, and you are overlooking the worst of your H, which you know lurks.
Not that many woman with no long history with a man will stay through that. Oh, and the boy thing. That is a stinger. My H totally ignores his own grands and makes over OW's kid like he was the prince of princes.
