After discussing the pictures with D, W says that the kids are both going to play basketball this year and the cost is $50 each. How much am I going to pay and how do I want to handle paying for hot lunches?
I've had that conversation with my spouse, too...maybe there's a shared playbook between them???
There's no way to win when a compromise isn't desired. Do you agree with the kids playing B'Ball? Are you able to pay?
If you can pay anything, this isn't a normal expense. The kids will lose their sport for your lawyer to win, and eventually, you. That won't help your R any.
If you can't, you can't. Blaming the lawywer doesn't accept your responsibility in this, but it does provide a bit of a boundary for her.
