Hugs MM78. You have been through a lot and sound like a very strong woman. It's incredible he has given you alimony for life. He must have the guilts, big time. And so he should. Peace.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369