Oh, and what happened with him and ExW - EXACTLY the same thing! He mistook relationship complacency on her part as the desire to not be married, so he moved on to other women while still married.
Is this code for "not focussing exclusively on him, or having a normal life with interests other than him, or plain old 'real life'?" Sounds pretty high schoolish, sorry. But I mean, in effect he's a serial cheater. A Guy like him won't look in the mirror to face the fact that it's HIM, not you or the ex w or the new OW, (or the next)...but HIM... That isn't good news for any woman, or a great model for a son. Yikes...Keep up the great GAL work. GAL Is not a tactic, it's your life. KEEP IT UP!! For you, and your son.
I once told him he will always search for the euphoria of new love versus snuggling in to the comfort of forever. I also told him he always takes the path of least resistance. He avoids hard emotional work. He couldn't and didn't argue those points.
Then...do you want this man, as he is now, as a life long partner? And if you have no choice anyhow, why not admit the positives of his absence, which is that you don't have two "Boys" to give all your energy to, and you can perhaps someday be in a R with an adult male. Just a thought. And yes, people can change. But until if and when that happens, your only healthy option is to keep doing what works [/color[color:#CC0000]]and is what you are doing, ie GAL, being upbeat and having a PMA, etc...and raising that boy of yours into a good strong loving Man... (( ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
