Hey Hope! You sound amazing and you are right--the abusive marriage just CAN'T be saved--I am as "dark" now as possible with my H--won't speak to him, won't eat what he cooks, etc. He complains like a whiney baby I don't "talk" to him--oh well!!

I am having a ball GAL. I have some scared moments with the D and lawyers and all, but overall I know I'd rather be homeless than deal with this nonsense any longer.

Stay strong and do the right thing for your precious S 6!!