Thanks for the feedback. I am guessing that a signature is a list of dates and what has happened so here is mine; apr- said love you but not in love may- talked about possibly wanting to sep. bu willing to work on marriage jun 22 - discovered texting i.e. emotional affair jun 23 - confronted and admitted to texting ended contact wants to work on marriage if i am willing to make changes but says will make no promises june 26 - discovered cards previously written by ow professing love admitted to some physical interaction but says no sex
June 26-aug. 16 contining to work on marriage lots of arguing and set bcks but still committed to working on things and doing mt Aug. 16 - starts back to work where other woman also works promises to be transparent about any contact Aug. 23 admits to missing other woman and being curious bout her Sept. 1 admits after 20 minutes of denying that he did have sex with ow during affair Sept 5 - finds out that he is emailing the other woman at work. Not sexual but more than necessary communication. I confront him and he decides he wants to leave Sept. 6 agrees to come back and continue to work on things for another month. Agrees to no contact as long as we take a brea k from arguing about the affair Oct. 1 - Caught sending ow a b-day card / wants separation but is hppy to be separated in the house Oct. 8- Ask him to continue to work on marriage and he say s he wants to move out. He says he is not seeing other woman at all other than in passing at work. Pretty sure this is true Is there any hope for me?
