Jin, I agree that they will have to tangled a web of lies that will be hard to keep up with when they "come out" Again, same for WH and OW. I'm actually interested to see how they try to spin it.

I know what you mean about hearing the tapes. I had a great deal of intel last week as she was traveling in another country and couldn't use skype. This exchange actually HELPED me. I hope you discovered the same thing. These mean ARE lost! It's sad, but they have to find their own way.

I am GALing so hard right now and having so much fun and feeling so free, I'm 100% confident I wouldn't want him back if he came crawling back today. I couldn't say that a few weeks ago. Do I still want to save my M? I think so....or I wouldn't still be coming here, but I know no matter what, I'm better for having been through this!

You are too! Stay strong!

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Me:38 H: 45
OW:34
S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16
2nd M for both
Together 12 yrs M: 6
EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10
Separated: 8/12/10