I chose the road less traveled by #31

[MichelleLT]

Too funny about all the "signs". Ah well.

At least you are rid of him.

Good luck with getting your stitches out.

((((((Kat))))))

[kat727]

I smell like a medicine cabinet fell on me! lol Really this medicine stuff smells awful. Got the stitches out about an hour ago. Not too bad but now I have sterile strips. The nurse kept acting like they told me all this stuff about the stitches...NOT. No ice cream this weekend, I just wasn't up for it. Maybe we could all go for some tonight.

kat

[ImprovedRomeo]

Did they give you any pain meds while they took the stiches out? Cuz when it wears off you might still feel the pain so keep some advil handy. But hopefully by tomorrow it'll feel a lot better.

Count me in for the ice-cream!

[kat727]

Woow he actually admitted that there was a service yesterday and that his honeymoon is this weekend:

"I am taking 10/15/10 off to spend the day with the kids before I leave for my honeymoon. I would like to have the girls that night and have them back by noon the next day, but if I remember correctly you said you had something planned. If your plans have since changed, please let me know if that would work.

The girls’ behavior was admirable Sunday. I was very proud of them. A big part of the sermon was about forgiveness and I wish the boys had been there to hear that. They know I love them and hopefully that will be enough…"

I think he is still seeing things the way he wants to see them. Well at least he dropped a bit of honesty.

kat

[Kalni]

Why is he telling YOU about the forgiveness he hopes for from your boys? He was hoping for a "quick fix" of forgiveness so that life could go back to being...normal? Pathetic people.

[MichelleLT]

Hah. Maybe he should try forgiving them for being pissed off at his immature behavior. Maybe he should try understanding their feelings instead of trying to force his affair partner on them. *rolls eyes*

Glad he finally dropped a bit of honesty. I think your lack of reaction til now is making him braver. Chicken$h!t lol.

Maybe it's the start of more honesty? *fingers crossed*

[kat727]

I didn't get into the insurance issue with him too much though we did discuss it last night. He knows that I am very unsure about how much my surgery will cost and that it makes me nervous.

I talked to the girls all last week about the upcoming wedding...well when I wasn't knocked out from the surgery. They were both trying to figure ways that they wouldn't have to go(playing sick was their first choice). I told them to talk to their Dad. As you can tell that didn't do any good. This was my reply to him:

"I do still have plans on the 15th, though I won't be taking the day off as originally planned as I took off most of last week for the surgery.

The girls made the best of what you must realize was a very difficult situation for them. Once again Ryan appears to have a difficult time but I don't think he is ready to discuss it. Hopefully he will have learned some good lessons over the past two years that will help him."


Of course I am very willing to talk when he is ready. He went for a walk in the rain last night without telling me. He slipped out shortly after his Dad arrived with the girls. Ex thinks that the boys should respect him and forgive him simply because he is their Dad. We have gone around and around with that.(ex and I). Guess someday, maybe, ex may just understand that respect has to be earned.

kat

[karen43]

I think some of us learn from our mistakes and some of us don't. And your X is one of the latter.

OK, I get busy for a week or 2, and I miss your surgery, X getting married , and stitches out!!! Unbelievable!!! You sound incredibly strong and good though. My phone has been out; I had to call the phone company to come out (the construction site next door maybe knocked it out?), so hopefully will work from now on. I've had Date Night for about 2 weeks; if you still are up for watching, we could do tomorrow night or this weekend or whenever you feel up to it. I'm so sorry I've been a bad friend!!!

[kat727]

Tomorrow night would work well for me!! Want to go for 7 EST which is 6 Central? Anyone from the west coast can join in and just post comments after you watch. Or watch it early. Oh, it gets crazy on the weeknights but I am kidless tomorrow so it works!

kat