Tough thing on the kids. When we split up it was really hard on D11. She was always probing STBXW to see if there was any chance. She gave up before I did though and she just gets quiet and sullen when anything D or R related comes up.
D8 enjoyed the separation at first. She loved having two places to live. Lately, she's been talking about the D a lot, drawing pictures of the four of us together. I think the hope is dying in her now.
Good thing on the dates. I finally got the courage to ask a couple of women out two weeks ago to a big event I was invited to. They both had plans and I didn't get the impression I shouldn't ask again so I'm looking around for something cool to go to.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6