Since my last post, I have been really trying to GAL and DB. I have been out with family, made plans with friends, and not initiated any conversations on the phone or thru texting with my H. We have not talked at all in two days. First question is about the bills. Before I left, H asked me to help remind him about the bills this first month while he got used to paying them online. I made a list for him of everything and when it was due before I left (he wanted this and i hoped some space would help us). I went over there one day within the first week I was gone to show him how to use the online banking to pay. Right now, the house payment is a few days late. I am not on the home loan and therefore not responsible or liable for it. My first instinct is to text him one message just to let him know it has not been paid yet. But I think that DBing would mean not texting him since I have already made him a list that he should be keeping up with. Second question is about his sister. She is 18 and planning on marrying the father of her child at the end of January. She may or may not know that we are living apart. I am not sure. She has asked for my help since I just got married back in May with a few things. Should I help her since he is not involved and hardly talks to her or is that crossing the DB line?
