It's Over, and I want to Move On!

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PH,

We agreed to share the car 50/50. I have the car when I have the kids, and she has the car when she has the kids.

She called me about 3-4 times this weekend, and I agreed to let her use it for about 6 hours yesterday. I was just taking the kids close by to the park and to church. Her mom has been staying here, and I don't know why I thought it would be harmless to let her have it during that time. Maybe I feel guilty about not making payments on it, and I thought it would be the right thing to do. I just did. I guess I was annoyed by the phone calls. I was ignoring them, and I thought too it would be a good example to set for the kids too. I just don't know really what was going through my head.

Then, I she hands me an invoice today for all these payments she expects me to pay. I was just so angry about it today.

She also wanted clothes for the kids when she left everything and moved out. She expected me to move everything and did not want anything, and now, she wants clothes for the kids when she could have discussed this while she moved out all of a sudden. I just don't know.

I asked the kids yesterday to pick some clothes out to take to take to their moms because I do not want them to be without clothes. D and S told me they have lots of clothes at STBXW's place. I told her their mom said they need need some clothes and we would find for for them to take. They said that STBXW is lying, and they need clothes at my place more. D said some other things, and I just did not do it. I am glad I did not give her any of the clothes after she gave me the invoice with an evil look on her face. I just don't get it.

I guess being "nice" backfired.

I think I need to adjust the amount I receive in spousal and child support from her.

Thanks for the support. I kind of need it these days.