Kissak, You need to find a way to stop focusing on him and his Carousel of Crazy. {as best you can} He is nitpicking because he can. His mean spirit isn't anything new. Most of those complaints aren't even anything you can control and my guess is that even if you did change those things he would come up with 7 more to take their places.
You are wonderful. You are the same lady he came home to months ago. These are his issues, not yours.
Remember what I have always said to you: Live your life while doing no harm. You have built a lovely life for yourself and your kids over the past couple years. Sometimes people are just angry unhappy people and there is nothing we can to do fix that. They have to figure it out and want to fix it first for themselves and then for those that love them.
*hugs*, dear lady. ~ swl
Look not mournfully into the past. It comes not back again. Wisely improve the present. It is thine. Go forth to meet the shadowy future, without fear. {Henry Wadsworth Longfellow}
