Get along OK but his brother is fiercely protective of him. H is the baby of the family. She is a bit of a snake and best friends with OW. She is likely facilitating and he is likely justifying in his head everything H is justifying... just a guess.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."