Could he be trying to get you to end the A not the M? That's what my H was looking for I realised in hindsight.

My H was throwing clues in my face and because I trusted him I didn't see them; he even bought OW a present using MY credit card- talk about trying to get me to see what he was doing- duh! It showed how little attention I had been giving him.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength