Wow, something JoAnn said to me just struck me significantly and deeply: He is trying to get me to end the marriage. The OW has nothing on me. I'm not even threatened by her. I know he won't be happy with her long term... and I think he knows it too. Pretty sure actually, maybe not consciously though.
Yep, I was always the strong one & he is counting on it again. Sorry, not this time. He is going to have to put on his big-boy pants and file himself
God, I do sound strong... or masochistic. No wonder he 'didn't feel like a man'. Yikes. Well, now's his chance!
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
