Thanks, I totally agree. Not being there for my kids whilst they have to witness it all is going to be torture for me.
Funny about the jewellery thing - my XH bought a huge diamond in south africa (where we are from) - I saw in on the credit card statement that he had to submit. Funny though he bought it in January - 5 months before we were divorced.
It all makes me so sick - that he has been lying to me for so long and all the while he told me to have faith for us.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived