I chose the road less traveled by #31

[kat727]

I didn't get into the insurance issue with him too much though we did discuss it last night. He knows that I am very unsure about how much my surgery will cost and that it makes me nervous.

I talked to the girls all last week about the upcoming wedding...well when I wasn't knocked out from the surgery. They were both trying to figure ways that they wouldn't have to go(playing sick was their first choice). I told them to talk to their Dad. As you can tell that didn't do any good. This was my reply to him:

"I do still have plans on the 15th, though I won't be taking the day off as originally planned as I took off most of last week for the surgery.

The girls made the best of what you must realize was a very difficult situation for them. Once again Ryan appears to have a difficult time but I don't think he is ready to discuss it. Hopefully he will have learned some good lessons over the past two years that will help him."


Of course I am very willing to talk when he is ready. He went for a walk in the rain last night without telling me. He slipped out shortly after his Dad arrived with the girls. Ex thinks that the boys should respect him and forgive him simply because he is their Dad. We have gone around and around with that.(ex and I). Guess someday, maybe, ex may just understand that respect has to be earned.

kat