LOL! Do you guys seriously look into stuff like that?! Oh my poor H!
LOL! My thoughts exactly!
the dog trots up to the cat everyday and starts to mess around then one day the dog runs up and just gets swatted with a flurry. dog thought bubble.... I just did the same thing I did yesterday. WTF over?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
LOL! No not a good sign of that!! It's a good sign because it means she's likely starting perimenopause (sorry if that's more info than anyone wants to know..) Means her PMS days are numbered. I started having crappy sleep a couple years ago around 'that time'. My PMS has getting less and less severe ever since. Course, it could be the thousands of dollars I've spent so far on therapy... (yeep). Oh well who knows, and who cares I guess. Neither my H nor I are complaining.
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
LOL! No not a good sign of that!! It's a good sign because it means she's likely starting perimenopause (sorry if that's more info than anyone wants to know..) Means her PMS days are numbered. I started having crappy sleep a couple years ago around 'that time'. My PMS has getting less and less severe ever since. Course, it could be the thousands of dollars I've spent so far on therapy... (yeep). Oh well who knows, and who cares I guess. Neither my H nor I are complaining.
There is therapy for that?
For your H a presume?
Nice of you to do that for him. Is he better?
Where can I sign up?
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I think confidence is attractive in women. But I'm also a sucker for a damsel in distress. If my W is unhappy, I've always tried to make her happy. Even today, that was my initial motive. Then I realized I just wanted to hear how her day was going.
And she was thinking "I have PMS, I have PMS, everything is wrong, life is miserable...wait there comes Pinhead, he wants to make me happy, did he bring flowers? I hate flowers. Why is he smiling? I hate him! Uh, he asked me how my day was going. How nice of him. I'll just feel like making him a sandwich."
I think that if I had walked in the door with flowers, I'd have been eating them for lunch...
And well, I did have a sandwich, but not a Sandwich.
Hello Pinhead, Just following your story. Your wife ML with you and you're pretty sure she enjoys it and wants to. That's surely a good thing? I'm surprised at what she says about kissing, though. You've certainly come a long way from things as they were at the start. I hope you two can piece things together. She sounds to me like one very confused person. the DB book says not to set too much score by what's said by the "unloving" spouse, personally I'm clinging to that and watching the actions. If she felt no attraction at all for you and given that she's been wont to tell you in clear terms what she's feeling (at the minute), would she have been a willing partner? Mind you, I have no judgement on that score, my H ML to me (he initiated as much as I, even more) about 3 or 4 t/week, right up till the day before he told me it was over and he couldn't "bear" me any more.
Bravo on being a new man where PMS is concerned. Your W is lucky she can tell you about such things and that you try to be understanding. My H just used to ask me if I was having my "period or something" whenever I disagreed with him or was tired or worried, fairly nastily at that.
I'd be with those who tell you to surprise her in some way, shake her out of her torpor. NCU
Me: 46 H:42 Together for 18 yrs, married 14. 3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7. Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation. Separated 08/2010
