I find the unspoken OW issue becoming larger and larger in my mind. I haven't broached the subject yet.
IMO, I would not. You just may scare him away by forcing him to acknowlege something that he may not be ready to.
BTW, have you ever read Mila's posts. If not, I suggest you do a search on her.
I hope all is well on your end.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
