I think the behavior that would come across too strong would be me confronting him the wrong way... He doesn't see me after work because we are separated. He has pulled away the last 3 days so I haven't seen him.
I just got off the phone with JoAnn. I think it was helpful. Man, this is the hardest thing EVER. So, she suggests that if I feel I need to confront him for my own sanity, I do it in a "i might be off base but people are telling me about the time you are spending with XXX and it appears you are having an affair." Obviously he is going to deny it. But I'll let him know people are asking questions at work so I will refer them to him... If he doesn't deny it, then what??? Unlikely but want to be prepared.
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
