Confidence is attractive... Nice to be able to be confident instead of acting confident.
Ahh see yes, you're right. Not to hijack, but just made me think I always think of that as good advice for men; but really should that work for women too then? I wonder how confident I seem to my H sometimes. Anyways. Sorry to interject. Really glad you lead you and your W to such a solid, connecting experience. Yay you!
I think confidence is attractive in women. But I'm also a sucker for a damsel in distress. If my W is unhappy, I've always tried to make her happy. Even today, that was my initial motive. Then I realized I just wanted to hear how her day was going.