I want to give her a choice to either start working on our relationship as husband and wife or start the D proceedings, whichever she choose's would start immediately. But I also wonder if a choice is really something to offer or not -
let her lead???!???!?!?!?!?
because she clearly has your families best interests at heart.
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I found out the other day that my W crossed the no-contact boundary with the former EA/OM
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Upon that discovery I also found copies of my pay stubs she has made and she has also hid all her wedding rings.
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She has still confirmed her desire about wanting a divorce
So what is working?
I would agree with her, let her go, let her feel you leaving - become a WAS. No drama, no negativity - this marriage just isn't working.
Your kids and wife are watching how you handle this.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
