People who haven't been through this have NO idea what it's like. I don't think I will do dinner again w/ anyone until my D is final. I went home and crawled into bed and thought about what I used to have and what I don't now and it made me sad.
Nope. Agree completely with your 1st sentence. I'm not doin' anything remotely romantic with anyone until my D is final either. Yep, I can relate to your last sentence too...but, Gypsy reminds us to "water the seeds, not the weeds"!
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.