Sorry but you can not control either one of them you are the only thing in life that you actually control. You have to do this for you if she looks back great then the real work starts if she don't you will be in a better place to start a new life without her. There are no guaranties in this life and sadly many of us will end our marriages my court date is this Thursday I was not successful and I'm ok with that. You really need to find out if there is om. Db will not work with active affair.
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M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct
