The part that is surprising to me is, after he gives me alimony and child support, he still should have $4K a month, or more, for himself. He makes GOOD money. His house payment is only $650/mo because it is a fixer upper.
So clearly he has taken on a ton of debt in the past 18 months if he can't make it work on $4k/mo. I pay all the daycare bills, school fees, dance lessons, swim lessons, and medical bills for the kids. I just dropped $140 on school pictures for the two kids because I bought double packages so he would have pictures, and I would have pictures...
Technically I am supposed to hit him up for 50% of the medical bills, but I haven't. Imagine how much more incensed he would be if he knew he actually owed me more money...