Most often than not, the question remains unanswered, because it requires a thoughtful and rational response which is impossible while they are irrational and angry.
It sinks deep. They will catch themselves about to look foolish. Next time they will remember.
Checkmate.
Thanks for the tips.
I find myself being disappointed with myself for not catching on quicker. (Allow myself to introduce myself ) I was too caught up in my own hurt and pity to see what I needed to do. A year ago, I felt like I was running out of time. Sometimes I still do. But she hasn't left. If it's strictly because she can't afford it or not, I don't know. I have some time left to continue the hard work.
I have ended my statements with a question at times, only I would get upset when she came back with an answer that I didn't want or with no answer at all. I see that's not the way to look at it.