Originally Posted By: idontunderstand


"Fine, I tried looking at it from your point of view, but you still don't care. I don't know why I even try. You obviously aren't being rational right now. We'll finish this later."



You can't look at it from her point of view, nor can she look at it from yours.

So what would you do?

If you do it successfully, there won't be a need to "finish it later".

Originally Posted By: idontunderstand


I have to accept her feelings as they are at the moment. I can't ever get defensive. I have to remain calm and confident even in the face of what seems to be the certain end of our M. This has been going on for over a year. I have a lot of catching up to do. I am finally starting to understand why things work and why they don't. It does take a lot of self discipline.



Yes you do. The end of your M as you know it is inevidable. You don't want it like that anyway, do you?

Keep doing what works. Don't worry about how long it's been.


Enjoy the Silence