Thanks, Coach! I will look into those...

Man, I have to say, every time I think there is a bottom for him, he finds another one...

I am sure Dan was in a foul mood after the weekend. Stephanie did not get a warm reception from the family, and cattle buddy Doug texted me Saturday night late-"Met her today, you are way better. No comparison." So I suppose that didn't go as well as he thought, either...

Anyway I get a call from him as I am driving back from preschool to my other school today. Pissed off. Did I cash the alimony check yet? When did I cash it? Why did I wait a week? It is probably going to bounce, he is sure it is going to bounce, I should not wait a week to deposit them...

See, he banks by ATM receipt. If that says he has money, then he has money. So he must have went into the weekend whirlwind thinking he had more money than he did.

I said, "Well I haven't deposited the child support check bc it hasn't come from the courthouse yet." He says great but that doesn't help with the one I already deposited. I said sweetly, "Oh, I was unaware I was not supposed to deposit the checks you send me." He hung up on me.

Then a barrage of texts,

*I don't like women very much, period

*I hate living in a sh!t hole and working like a dog every minute

*Let alone think in a million years we are gonna get fixed

*To be nearly broke every day

*I know my kids hate it

*To think you could have just shut the f up and not b!tched about getting to stay home every day

*Pisses me off to the core

*The only "us" that exists is the one centered around "us" being the kids parents

So in other words, he is having a bad Monday. I actually feel kind of bad for him, but he made his bed, time to lie in it. Chickens come home to roost and all that...

I just replied "I agree the kids hate it this way and things seem miserable for you."

No replies...I read that if you agree with them they have nothing to fight about...

Last edited by BobbiJo; 10/11/10 05:18 PM.

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Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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