How should I handle MLC direct lying?

[ericmsant2]

Kissak,

But the lawyer says only way to sign house over is to file.

What is more important the house or your soul? A house is nothing more than 4 walls. It is what is in the house that matters.

I've always been religious and that helps me immensely too

Then can I assume that you have asked God, Christ, the universe, Allah, Budda, etc. to forgive YOU? If so, then….

Forgiveness...honestly I'm not sure I'll ever forgive H for choosing the stupid things over the great things we had.

Think about this statement for a second….

We don't communicate well

Communication is a TWO way street. It involves listening and understanding. DB principals if you think of them teach us HOW to communicate. It is how we apply them that matters.

I don't think either of us knows what we want really

There will come a time when YOU will know…First though you need to continue to work on yourself and get to that place of true peace, understanding and FORGIVENESS.

Including the laughs as I can use them

FTR, sometime I crack myself up.

We really did have a lot of special ties, though all of that seems to have evaporated (for me anyway) now.

Quite often in order for a M..fu*k a R to be re-established/formed the old dysfunctional one will need to die.

BUT

If you really do the “inner work”…well then any New R, which could be with your H is going to be much better!


God Bless,
Eric