So, if I am willing to try to work through the A, which again, he doesn't know I know about... How do I begin with someone that keeps saying "it is too late..."
How do I do this without pressuring him?

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."