Originally Posted By: Jstar
What do I think about my husband? I think he is lost, lost in the sense of he really does not understand life, what is im portant, priorities, how to do the right thing.

I think there is good in him, when it suits him, moments of goodness,very immature and selfish. i believe he thought that having a family- meaning me and the kids was going to be easy, you just get married and everything is just dandy.

i believe he is a coward and like most WAS's took the easy route, but doesn't understand that after divorce it is even harder and same arguments are there, on and on and on.

i haven't been good to myself, so i don't think i love myself that well.


How much of your H's actions do you control?

You can't give away what you don't have. If you don't think you are worth loving why would your H?


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.