Here it is... it was this thread. I thought this was just spot on. Sorry i don't know how to do the quotey things when it's just a cut and copy.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Sounds suspiciously like pursuing. And everyone knows that I'm an expert on that.

Originally Posted By: pookie
I think you are past the "no pursuing" phase. You are on "leading" phase. I think there is a difference.

You will give her the option to follow you and be ready for the case she won't.

Then try something else. Find that attraction button.

She shows signs that she wants to find it too.

She ML to you, but thinks that kissing is too intimate.

What does it takes to change that and add intimacy she seeks?

I think it was Coach who said that it's like the dog who has been chasing a squirrel, finally caught it and now does not know what to do with it.

I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.