And just now I sign on to FB and she's posted a quote from a book that I've written to her back when we started having problems. It was a quote from Cormac McCarthy's book "The Road". I wrote this quote in several letters that I know she has with her - in which I talk about how dedicated I will be to her and how we'll figure this all out.
And now she posts that on FB. The exact quote. The lines are about how there is something inside of us that we never knew was there, but we carry it with us. Then, someone else always knows it's been there and they remind us that it is real even though we can't see it.