I got the ILYBINIWY speech. She said we've grown apart, and she didn't "love me the way a wife should love a husband." I was devastated.
She's not attracted to you.
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"You sounded upset on the phone, is everything ok?"
Why ask that? You already know the answer.
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And she said "No! Aren't you stressed out too?"
I just kind of shrugged.
That's weak. Stop taking her temperature.
Here's what I "see" in you. You are afraid to take action but you want to control everything by stonewalling - stop going to MC because it mads you "feel" upset. Your wife won't be attracted to a emotionally weak man. You sound very scared, unsure of yourself and angry deep down. You exhibit passive-aggressive, co-dependent and pessimistic behavior.
Stop letting your feelings control you. Make yourself responsible for your own happiness. You have a choice in how you think, feel, and act.
She will notice when you start acting like a man.
Cheers
I assume you mean this one?
Painful to read now.
I was hoping that reading it again you'll realize how on the spot Coach was and how far you have come once you learned what to do.
It's painful for me to read that you are debating yourself to give up.
