If you do D, it will be over because you have nothing tying the two of you together. You can change your number and never talk to him again. I know that is hard, but the roller coaster will be over.
As for H saying you never asked him to come home. Don't listen to him. YOu know that you have asked and hey...you are not the one to ask him to leave so why ask him to come home. He chose you leave and he can choose to come home. That is all on him. Don't take it personally or think you should have done more because you have done all you can. Now it is up to him.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
