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[Fightingforher]

LIL,

I'm sorry your here. It's been 7 months for me since the D bomb was dropped and I found out there was an affair. I never wanted to believe that my W was capable of something like that. Bottom line is she did it and I've embraced what has happened and I've worked on the things that I failed at in our M.

Long story short I have gotten great advice from this website and all the people who have experienced what we are going through. It's been a long 7 months and she has sinced moved out with our son and bought a new house. It's been a rough ride but it does get easier.

I'll have you know that 7 months later my W is now realizing what a mistake she has made and is begging for a 2nd chance. I'm not saying this will happen for everyone going through this but you need to allow yourself to give her the space she is requesting. At first is was hard to let her go, I myself was clingy and doing all the wrong things. Something clicked for me and I started making adjustments and I started to feel better emotionally and physically.

All I wanted was my W to come back to me and now she is showing signs that I'm the one she wants. The funny thing is with the therapy I've gone to and the growing that I've done the past 7 months I just don't know if I want her back......

My point is stay strong and focus on your kids and I promise things will get better for you.