Hi Lostinlife, I came to drop by your thread to give you a hug. I can totally relate to how you feel and react in your situation... I feel very much the same even without kids. At times I'm not sure if going dark really works when your partner goes darker? Like everyone says, it'll turn out to be how it was meant to be... slowly I'm letting go. (((Lostinlife)))
Thanks fullmoon.
M-38 W-37 T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999) S-5 S-2 Wife left 7/4/2010
"When life hands you a lemon, say, 'Oh yeah, I like lemons! What else ya got?" — Henry Rollins