It's been awhile since I've posted but I was hoping for some advice. Now that my W and I are separated and living apart I've started to GAL. After OM broke it off with W she has realized what a mistake she made. She is 100% convinced that we should be together again and work on our marriage. With all that has happened I'm a little shocked that she thinks I'd be here waiting with open arms.
She knows that the D is still in the works and she'll be served any day now. Her being alone has made her think about things. She has made a commitment to herself to stay single until she figures things out. In the meantime she is really laying some ground work to repair our R. I just can't see how the trust in our R could ever be salvaged???? She has expressed to me that she is going to go to therapy and hopefully figure out what type of void she was trying to fill when she strayed from our M.
She has admitted all her wrong doings and seems to be genuinely remorseful. I just wonder what her motives are, is it because of our son she wants to get back together? Does she love me or just the thought of getting her family back together? Do R like this have a chance if we were to reconcile? Are these all signs from a WS?
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA