Definitely think that she is scared stiff and needs to stake her claim on the xH. I think she may be petrified that he will realise that he has made a mistake.
In comparison to our relationship she definitely wears the pants in that house. Well actually it is her house and she is now the breadwinner so totally controls the relationship. He hated the fact that I didnt contribute enough financially to the household, however I worked part time so that he could travel as when he needed for his job and progress up the career ladder so well as he did.
She was also married and so also had an A with my xH. So they both cheated and therefore are both cheaters. The irony is that she now travels alot for her job whilst he stays at home (as I did for most of my marriage), I guess he is also scared that she will cheat on him.
Gosh what a wonderful way to start a new relationship/marriage. Not sure who is happy in this whole process!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
