I think, thick headed me, that what you are trying to point out to me is that even after November 17th, after papers are signed, after the couch is split with a chainsaw, that there is still a possibility of R if I'm hanging in there for him. Right?
Yes BUT that is NOT the only thing that we are trying to get YOU to see.
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is my own financial well being. The healthcare, the ability to pay for the house, yada, yada, yada
This concerns me too. Go read Brooklyn’s thread and tell me if any of this ^^^ should change what YOU do for YOU.
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until I come out fighting
ANGER again. Hey, why do YOU allow him to push YOU? Do you know the answer? Oh wait, No you still have not answered the hard questions.
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To be self reliant. I am
Self reliant. How? I noticed that your reason for pushing your H was concern over your financial well being. How does the self reliant play into this? Is the response to YOUR H more about your anger than about your financial well being?
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say what I wanted when I wanted, but with tact and humor
So then YOU will always speak YOUR mind? What if it hurts someone?
Is it always just what Punkin wants and what Punkin feels entitled to say – at any cost?
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To be an good lookin' old lady.
On the inside as well I assume?
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thick headed me
You said it – not me. LOL
Maybe I am wrong Punkin…I think you’re still angry.
I think you’re angry because you FEEL that YOUR H pulled YOUR dreams away from you.
I think your angry because you’re a “good lookin old lady (and FTR, I am NOT calling YOU old)” and your MLC wacked out H still left.
You still did not answer Grit’s questions.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
