Didn’t I just suggest the other day that you get hang out and have a beer. See below
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Dude - go have a beer tonight...sit back..and just try to give your mind a break.
Do you see why I suggested the beer?
Ya know Bobby, I can’t figure you out man.
I’m with Grit on this one. You need to figure out what you want and then start acting like it.
I believe you have read the MLC resources. Do you really understand what MLC is?
Your wife is confused right now Bobby. She is totally out there. Why else do you think she would leave the comfort of her house to move out and into a place where she does not have the funds to pay for it.
Why do you think she decided to go back to school and leave you all of a sudden?
Why the sudden change in behavior?
Bobby, your wife is in a crisis.
AND Now I hate to say it…so are YOU.
Bobby you detach so that you can protect yourself emotionally from her. You detach so that YOU do not open your mouth and write a check the honestly you and I know your as* cannot cash. Nor does it want to cash right now.
Look man, I am not gonna keep beating you up. You responded already and cannot undo the past. Learn from this experience.
You pushed and now you will find out how far she is willing to, in her MLC mind, to make a point.
You want my thoughts….
Go have a beer and learn to STFU. Leave her alone and let the dust settle.
Do not call her 15 times and apologize.
When you see her again – be civil and nice. Do not bring up the D or lawyers.
If she contacts you and asks have you changed the locks, you will need to decide what your answer is – if it were me I would say no not yet and follow that up, with …”I am still upset at our last exchange and I hope that going forward we can communicate better”. This is not apologizing not is it casting any blame.
Do you really want to save your M Bobby?
If you do, please start to listen to some of the advice being posted. If something does not make sense ask and I am sure that someone will try to help.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
