Take care of you and your kids and the rest will follow.
From my experience all I can be is the best mom I know how to be, provide a stable, secure home, support their passions, maintain appropriate boundaries and let them know I'm not going anywhere.
That just about sums it up.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
