Hi Lostinlife, I came to drop by your thread to give you a hug.
I can totally relate to how you feel and react in your situation... I feel very much the same even without kids.
At times I'm not sure if going dark really works when your partner goes darker?
Like everyone says, it'll turn out to be how it was meant to be... slowly I'm letting go.
(((Lostinlife)))


Me:38 H:37, no kids
Married: 2.5 yrs, together 5yrs
Separated since Mar 2010