hey Faith, that sounds like Allen, no? would agree that all out exposure might not work best bc didnt necessarily do that either. did modified approach. in the end, my exposees didnt really help me other than the OMW's. she was the real hero for me. she did some heavy lifting. scared the W and OM as well.
u r so right that u need to be in a better place when u do it. in the end, i came to conclusion that i could walk away and although heartbroken i would be able to hold my head high and live with that decision w/ few regrets. i very much want my M and am willing to fight for it. suspect blgp is as well.
she just needs to be prepared for the "it will get worse before it gets better."
and lastly? the decision to have an affair was wrong and has NOTHING to do with blgp. agreed. the WAS makes that decision and can try to justify it any way they can but fuggedaboutit. no excuses allowed.
would agree that all out exposure might not work best bc didnt necessarily do that either. did modified approach. in the end, my exposees didnt really help me other than the OMW's. she was the real hero for me. she did some heavy lifting. scared the W and OM as well. 